Saturday, December 8, 2012

Insecurity.Its OKAY To Be Ugly.

                    Sampai dah jumpa kawan anda,dia bawak pulak geng dia yang lain belum pernah anda kenali,sorang lawa,pakai Balenciaga,sorang lagi manis,pakai kasut Giuseppe Zanotti.Tiba-tiba kasut Zara anda yang menampung berat anda berkilo-kilo yang baru 5 minit tadi anda gahkan sebagai Jimmy Choo tu terus jadi made in Danau Kota.How? I ols selalu rasa macam tu,i mean major SELALU.Dolls,itulah yang dipanggil "self-insecurity".Wujud dalam setiap diri manusia cukup akal,so kalau over confident tu gila lar??hahha.mak no komen nok!
                   Sebenarnya normal lah kan rasa begitu,sebab kalau nak dibandingkan,i ols ni lebih membesar dalam suasana komuniti yang suka mengkritik dan merendah-rendahkan keyakinan i ols,yelah paham2 je lah i ols ni sape kan.BTW,no time nak berdrama tentang kehidupan lampau i ols.Yang pasti,i ols percaya semua pengalaman lepas tu banyak mengajar i ols membawa keyakinan diri i ols tapi sebenanrnye rasa kurang keyakinan atas berjuta kelemahan dalam diri ni still menebal tak pernah hilang.Cuma berjaya ditutup dengan erm,mungkin kematangan dan evolusi pemikiran (dan kecanggihan adobe photoshop)  bila meningkat usia 22 tahun ni.not kertu yet.shadap.
                    Ya,Iris sangat yakin self insecurity takkan hilang dalam diri kita,rasa kurang senang dengan tubuh sendiri itu takkan hilang sebab memang manusia takkan pernah berpuas hati dgn apa yang ada,cuma kita perlu sedar tahap kematangan kita berfikir perlu diseimbangkan dengan kekurangan keyakinan yang ada.Matilar ayat i ols dah macam ustazah Bahiyah bagi ceramah,abaikan penggunaan bahasa yang kurang siuman yer adek-adek.
                  I ols bukanlah selayaknya Ustazah Bahiyah nak berbicara tentang motivasi keyakinan diri,cuma berkongsi sedikit pengalaman apa yang i ols buat utk hilangkan masalah ketidakyakinan yang membataskan pergaulan I ols daripada zaman kanak-kanak gara-gara memiliki perwatakan yang sedikit 'berbeza' dari orang lain. :)

1. Mengaku Sahaja Silap dan Kelemahan Diri.

Jangan takut dengan kekurangan yang anda ada.Jangan tanya kenapa anda pendek,jangan tanya kenapa anda berjerawat,tapi terima diri anda seadanya.Setiap benda tidak cantik dipandang,ada benda lain padanya yang lebih cantik utk dinilai.Saya punyai masalah kulit muka sensitif,saya ada parut,muka dan rambut yang berminyak,saya tak mampu jadi secantik yang saya ingini dan saya terpaksa melalui banyak perubahan tapi saya tak pernah berpuas hati sampai suatu hari saya buat keputusan untuk terima sahaja seadanya,cuba perbaiki apa yang perlu dan kemudian rasa lega lahir sendiri.Tiada istilah hodoh pada diri manusia dan kalau sekalipun saya hodoh dan tidak cantik,saya percaya ia tidak akan menggugat apa-apa dalam diri saya.Jadi begitu juga anda.Tidak salah jadi kurang dari orang lain kerana pasti ada lebihnya yang kita sendiri buat-buat tak nampak.

2. Buat Apa Yang Anda Suka dan Rasa Selesa.

Suka memasak?belajarlah memasak!tingkatkan keyakinan diri anda buat apa yang anda gemari.Macam saya,sangat suka fesyen,berblog lah pasal fesyen,sejujurnya,fesyen dan baju banyak meningkatkan keyakinan saya,jadi saya bereksperimentasi dengan gaya sendiri,selesakan diri dengan benda yang saya suka buat saya rasa lebih gembira nak berhadapan dengan orang lain.Jangan mendesak diri anda buat dan bercampur dengan sesuatu atau seseorang yang anda tak selesa dan tak suka gara-gara anda mahu kelihatan lebih baik.Selagi anda rasa tak selesa,selagi tu lah anda takkan kelihatan tak selesa.

3.Belajar Membuka Fikiran Dengan Pengalaman Orang Lain.

Elakkan sesuka hati mengadili atau judge sifat orang lain,terima keadaan sekeliling dan lebih berfikiran terbuka.Sebabnya,ada sesetengah orang,contoh lah; akak-akak bertudung yang tak nak berkawan dengan perempuan tak bertudung atau yang tak bertudung label perempuan bertudung as 'kampungan',tak payah lah bagi label pada orang,yang penting kita jaga diri kita,selagi kita tak kenal hati budi orang lain,jangan mudah-mudah nak buat andaian tentang orang.

Tips-tips yang lain yang saya guna yang kira-kira berjaya (kot!).Lain orang lain cara lah kan dik non ;

4.Belajar Pakai High-Heels.
5.Cuba jangan tau nak mekap warna-warna natural je,tambah warna sikit kalau mekap muka.


6.Jangan ikut trend,pakai apa yang anda suka dan selesa.



7.Buat orang lain ketawa.
8.Senyum pada orang lain
9.Sekali sekala,pakai baju yang anda rasa buat anda nampak cantik dan selesa.

10.-MAJOR IMPORTANT- Kekal merendah diri dalam apa jua situasi.Bila bergaul,selalu merendah diri dan bercakap penuh adab.Ada bezanya rasa rendah diri dan merendah diri,Rasa rendah diri tu rasa tak yakin.Merendah diri adalah maksudnya,sentiasa pastikan diri tidak menunjuk-nunjuk walaupun tahu anda vogue,ko hadoo??Haha.Merendah diri buat kita senang didekati.So,amalkan.



Friday, November 16, 2012

Fashion Treasure

I didn't know why but i have been so excited to write so many posts lately.My brain seems to generate too many ideas to be put on the blog that I have to pour all the ideas on a post,save it into the drafts and actually plans an appropriate timeline which and when the best time for me to publish them.So all the articles are like waiting for their turns to be published and for god sake,it makes everything much easier.I dont want to end up publishing 5-6 posts in a day,cause you guys would be bored just to read everything that i have inside my brain!

Honestly,i have so many things that managed to catches my eyes whenever i'm on search for the best fashion items to be put in this post.Ive been looking and studying the whole trendiest fashion items for about a month. But,Im always that person who much prefer my own guts and intuition than the latest trend itself. Things that amazes my sight and looks practical will always be the first to end in my wishlist.And as for this post,I would like to share with you guys the three items I'm craving for the moment.1st,the hobo bag,with bold prints or color.Because every hobo bags have a very simple and sophisticated shapes to it,the one that stands boldly in color or prints always look good for everyday use. 2nd,Blazer,actually im on search for royal blue and light pink blazer but i end up falling for below(picture) blazer.I'm in real love for it prints actually,so unique.Lastly,darling,who didn't love the mullet skirt to add some sexiness?!
Animal prints are surely a comeback.Hobo bag by Reed Krakoff
 Spring 2013 


 This blazer is a gorgeous piece.You cant really tell the real prints,is it a snakeskin print or what?And that what makes it so attractive.Not to forget the glamourous colour.Highly chic in so many levels.By Alexander Wang Spring 2013.


I was blown away by the silhouette of this skirt."Something wrong" creates something amazing to it.Ive seen this type of  silhouette from Gucci too,but on skirt,its just amazing.By Balenciaga Spring 2013.


Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Bedazzled style by Kristina Bazan.

Old Hollywood glamour inspires a lot of the current trends.Stepping into the gliterring look with amazingly beaded or lace dress.Shower your skin with bronze,luxurious cream and daring red lips. Keep make-ups subtle and yet still elegance with the shine of bronze and golden focusing to your eyes.But my darlings,what is glamour without confidence to portray the elegance?




She is one of my favourite blogger.Exquisite taste and high end fashion sense.Kristina Bazan.

Sunday, November 11, 2012

street look video atmosphere in NYC



i think that this video is very cool.how in love are new yorkers to fashion.every detailed are so chic even they are going for groecries and even to works.I totally will go to New York some days!

the Look: Dayang Nor Atikah


Dayang Nor Atikah
winner for Ford Supermodel Competition (Malaysia)
Remarkable beauty and amazing style. :)

pic from juanthegarage.blogspot.com

Saturday, November 10, 2012

hobo hobo.the must have casual bags.



Quite tired looking at dozens of girls wearing the same bags trying hard to copy the look of Blair Warldorf.The classic Dior-styled bags, the bowler bags was like everywhere and im tired of seeing girls hanging it on their wrist looking like some kind of a cheap copycat style.I am more keen to look for Hobo bags.It doesn't make a comeback yet,but yes,I think its the perfect time to find a nice one.

It screams casualty and practicality.I remember i used to have one last year and it felt so comfortable that because of the compartment is quite wide and very easy to be filled with my stuffs.Bag is like my second mobile home,everything I need have to be inside it. Majorrr!


Structuredly Subtle: Prabal Gurung

There's a thin line between the strong bold structured look and subtle femininity and Prabal Gurung is very well known for one of those designer who managed to stand between these two identity.Rich and contemporary,the look of his 2013 Cruise Collection makes us forget the vibrant tribal prints brought by Burberry Prorsum. Its what special,going to the versus pathway of trends seems to captured the attentions.I am impressed,well impressed,he is young and a fashion genius.Creating an edgy look while at the same time keeping its subtle and wearable.So my darlings,lets take a look of his 2013 Cruise Collection and let us be inspired with his style. LOVE.


i love the the edgy and strong prints on the dress and very structured materials.




Born on 31 march 1974.Born in Singapore but raised in Nepal.
Attended Parsons School of Design. First fashion debut was in 1999.
He was the runner up for 2012 CFDA/Vogue Fashion Fund.

Yes,let us also be impressed with the fact that he is major hot...


Monday, November 5, 2012

my times with the dolls

What can be much more happier on weekend if its not spending times with my favorite dolls?I mean my two baby dolls,Myl and Fafa.We are enjoying our times so much relaxing and having a chill times. :).Its MAJOOORRR.


Im wearing my yellow chiffon blouse with butterfly motives on it.My favorite pick was the skirt.Its chic in so many levels,i've tried to match it with so many clothes and its still end up to look good.I am so in love with it.FYI,that black satin bow was from another skirt.And of course,my chained pink bag blends so well with the skirt too.I felt so feminine in these outfits!


I also got the matching bangles for the bag.And still,I always like to play lots of colours on my outfits especially accessories.Make it chunky and vintage,uh-mazing turn on chicness!



 I cant believe that I am with Myl having our off weekend day together after a long fight before.Eh,just kidding!One thing about me and Myl,we never fight since we're become good friends.Its just amazing,and now we both had grown up so much but still close like we used too.It feels like  asister when I'm with her.

Myl's flat shoes are major turn on.I love it.Its so her,edgy!


My charming beloved Doll,i call her Along,and I LOVE her so much! (and her paradise collections of bags!)


Guess what?I bumped into Farah Jaja!!she's also one my closest friend since we're studying together.Its been a while now we both are working and had not spend so much times together like we used to. :( But i was really glad to see her.


 One thing about us is,eventough we share the same addictive interest to fashion but we both completely had TWO different personal style.Myl is always the type of girl who looks very edgy with a bit of rockish looks while i'm more to a feminine style and love all the skirts and dresses.I guess that what makes both of us interesting,we have grown to develop TWO different style and personalities.




Sunday, October 28, 2012

Iris The Halloween Cat!

Its Halloween!What did u guys wore for Halloween party?Well,I dont really celebrate them because it is not a part of my religion's and official country's celebration but that doesn't stop me from having a lot of fun playing dress ups with the rest of my friends in Pandora!So,on Halloween, Pandora (where I work) done a little Halloween celebration where we all had to participates by wearing costumes that are prepared by our management.I was so scared that they might dress me in some silly costumes!

Well,I dont care much if its funny but I am very sure that I will NOT wear them if they don't look CHIC enough!



Here I am!I'm a Kitty Cat!meeeoowww!!!


In order to avoid myself from being caught in a silly and stupid costumes which is so not Chic in so many levels,I had asked my colleagues to actually look for a cat ears,and dah-ling!Styling are always important.Best part is that the ear comes together with the leopard print bow-tie.Wait! I'm not sure if I'm a cat or a leopard now.Who cares anyway,I still love em.

So I styled myself with the ear and thank god I had this flowy black dress with layers of chiffon.To add a bit of naughty-ness to the dress,I paired a belt to add some silhouette that looks a bit girlish and childish.
What can be naughtier than pairing my kitty costume with a sky high heels!Even the heels kills my leg's muscle so badly,but I'm happy cause everything matches well!






The whole Pandora team.The Undertaker,and the Jedi,Star Wars.amazing!


Trick or Treat!These little chick cant get enough of the candies!



The Undertaker killed the leopard.Thats against the law of the wildlife!


Oh,the kitty cat is caught while tweeting! XD



Monday, October 22, 2012

Zebra On Me

Sometimes,when everything is too bright,colouful and in good control,you feel like its better to loosen up  a bit.I adore this zebra print with the leather legging.Something much more casual and quite not really me but I love it.The extensions is another thing,since I like to experiments,I wanna feel how it is letting all the long hair down.Sorry for the ciggarate,please know that smoking is bad for your health and I'm doing my best to stop!haha (i know theres goin to be lotsa ppl who will judge me for this,HADE AKU KESAH?) :)





Thursday, October 18, 2012

Rag And Bone drag my fashion heart out!

Fall and Winter collections boleh jadi agak membosankan kerana ianya dah tentu tak bersesuaian dengan cuaca dan iklim di negara kita.So Cruise Collections 2013 adalah pilihan terbaik!And pilihan Iris dah tentu Rag&Bone,walaupun kebanyakan stail jenama ini lebih nampak maskulin dan edgy,which is quite the opposite of my whole style.Tapi,keunikan karaketer design dan tekstur baju Rag and Bone buat Iris tertarik.Kalau pandai styling,apa salahnya campurkan stail Flowery Princess dan Masculine Chic bersama?It should be fantastic!








Wednesday, October 17, 2012

My Short Trip with my Sister. :)

Beberapa hari yang lepas Iris ada pergi melawat kakak Iris,Linda which is kakak Iris yang kedua yang sekarang tinggal di Kelantan.Well,we both had so much fun!Until kakak Iris ada memasukkan Iris untuk ke sebuah majlis makan malam yang menghimpunkan beberapa pemilik-pemilik butik pengantin di sana.

Kelantan is always a very traditional place with very conservative people.But that doesnt stop me from still be me,Iris and have fun with all my clothes!

Check my outfits!

This is what I wore during the dinner.Iris pakai blouse sleeveless kuning,Iris peminat peter-pan collar.It feels so like a fairy tale and princessy!
Masa ni waktu baru masuk ke hotel.Nak mula mekap muka sendiri. 

Ini lah kakak Iris,Linda Abas or I called her as Angah.Sangat2 Iris sayangi dan sentiasa memahami.Sama juga seperti Iris,dia obses pada mekap dan pakaian!
Ini selepas bersiap sebelum masuk ke dewan,Iris sebenarnya rancang nak pakai skirt fish tail warna turqoise  tapi sbb kesuntukan masa nak cari masa di KL so Iris terbeli skirt orange ni,actually fish tail jugak (juga dikenali sebagai Mullet-skirt)

Ini adalah hari terakhir before I fly off back to KL. ya,Iris masih pakai aksesori yg sama sebab sgt match dengan skirt biru tu,paling penting skirt tu cuma RM15 dari Cotton On dibeli masa sale!Im so proud of myself for buying dat skirt.

 What can be better than cheap and rich food in Kelantan!Ayam Goreng Madu for breakfast.I mean BREAKFAST.Say hello to soon-fat-happy Iris. :)
Ini lah bilik Iris.ada dua katil tapi I end up being alone in the room sebab kakak Iris kena balik rumah dia untuk uruskan hal keluarga.

 Semua dah disisapkan pada jam ptg sebelum Iris mula mekap.


 Again,my second obsession after clothes and fashion,FOODS! I am literally a food lover.Iris tidak memilih bab makanan asalkan halal utntuk dimakan dan sangat suka bereksperimentasi dgn makanan dan kurang menjaga makan untuk kurus.Have fun with food swhile you live.Erk,tak sure itu tepat atau tidak. :)